National Child Abuse Prevention Month
– April 2020 –

Every April, child and youth serving organizations, including Catholic Dioceses, parishes, and schools, join the national movement to recognize and lift-up the immeasurable significance of Child Abuse Prevention. The Catholic Church embraces this opportunity as a time to highlight the importance of protecting children from abuse and to raise awareness that child abuse is preventable, as we reaffirm our work to help make great childhoods happen locally and nationwide.

While the Diocese of San José works year-round to prevent abuse of any kind, during April a special emphasis is placed on the importance of learning how to protect our most vulnerable from the evils of child abuse. These efforts coincide with the immensely important work the Church in the United States has done in support of our Promise to Protect and Pledge to Heal through our united commitment to the Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People.

In recognizing the power of prevention, we are reminded that the healing journey for child sexual abuse victim/survivors, and their families, is a long and arduous one. The abuse of our most vulnerable is contrary to our faith in Jesus Christ, and to the teachings of the Church. Each of us, as members of our Catholic community, can contribute to their healing by remembering all those impacted by childhood sexual abuse in our prayers.

Now is the time to remain vigilant in order to protect our youth and so many vulnerable populations. The increased concerns for child safety, exasperated by the unique challenges presented by COVID-19, highlight the need to be able to recognize abuse, especially in our local parish and school communities, as well as the ability to report instances or suspicions of abuse to both the diocese and civil authorities. Services critical to children’s safety, and victim/survivor’s well-being must continue to be made available despite the outbreak, and we all play a crucial role in this effort in our local communities.

Let us join in unity as brothers and sisters in Christ by showing our support for protecting God’s children, through our recognition of Child Abuse Prevention Month within our local parish and school communities. To assist you in this effort, we have developed an online toolkit to promote child abuse prevention resources for use by caring individuals and families: Diocese of San José Child Abuse Prevention Month Toolkit

USCCB Resources for Parishes & Schools: Bulletins, Handouts, & E-Flyers
  • April is Child Abuse Prevention Month – Download: ENGLISH | SPANISH
  • A Prayer for Healing Victims of Abuse – Download: BILINGUAL
  • Novena for Protection and Healing from Abuse – Download: ENGLISH | SPANISH
  • Warning Signs of Abuse in Minors – Download: ENGLISH | SPANISH
  • Five Ways to Protect Your Children from Sexual Abuse – Download: ENGLISH | SPANISH
  • Keeping Children & Teens Safe Online – Download: ENGLISH | SPANISH
  • Ten Tips for Protecting Children and Offering Outreach to Victims/Survivors – Download: ENGLISH | SPANISH
  • USCCB Youth Protection Norms – Download: ENGLISH | SPANISH
Darkness To Light Resources: Child Abuse Prevention Advocacy, Awareness & Statistics

 

These 5 Steps to Protecting Children are key factors in preventing child sexual abuse.

    • Step 1: Learn the Facts – If we don’t understand child sexual abuse, we can’t end it. It is highly likely that you know a child who has been or is being abused.
    • Step 2: Minimize Opportunity – Safe environments can help reduce the risk for abuse. More than 80% of sexual abuse cases occur in isolated, one-on-one situations.
    • Step 3: Talk About It – Talking openly breaks down barriers and reduces stigma. By talking openly about our bodies, sex, & boundaries we can encourage children to share.
    • Step 4: Recognize the Signs – Signs of abuse aren’t always obvious, but they are often there. Emotional or behavioral changes are often the most common signs.
    • Step 5: React Responsibly – It’s our responsibility to react appropriately to suspicion, disclosure, or discovery of abuse. Only 4% to 8% of reports of all sexual abuse are false.

Learning the facts is the first step to preventing child sexual abuse.

    • The Magnitude of the Problem – Child sexual abuse is far more prevalent than people realize. Find out how big the problem really is.
    • Signs of Abuse – Do you know what to do if you suspect or discover child sexual abuse? Learn the facts about signs of abuse that will help you identify when to report.
    • Offender Statistics – Those who molest children look and act just like everyone else. Abusers can be neighbors, friends, and family members.
    • Circumstances of Abuse – Child sexual abuse takes place under specific, often surprising circumstances.
    • Risk Factors – While no child is immune, there are child and family characteristics that can heighten the risk of sexual abuse.
    • Consequences of Abuse – Emotional and mental health problems are often the first consequence and sign of child sexual abuse.
    • Facts on Reporting – Only about one-third of child sexual abuse incidents are identified and even fewer are reported – HELP REPORT ABUSE! Please note that this is a general statistic and not based on the diocese’s reporting procedures, which follow State and Federal Mandated Reporter laws.
Prayer Opportunities & Activity Toolkit in Support of Child Abuse Prevention Month & Youth Protection Year-Round

 

On Thursday, April 2nd at 3pm ESDT, Bishop Bishop Knestout of the Diocese of Richmond, joined by the lay faithful, will recite the Luminous Mysteries. We offer the rosary in recognition of April as Child Abuse Prevention Month and for the children who currently face or are at risk of abuse or neglect during these challenging times. Please join us in this time of prayer through the Diocesan Twitter account (@RichmondDiocese) or on the diocesan webpage: https://richmonddiocese.org/livestream/.

 

United States Conference of Catholic Bishops - WikipediaOn Friday, April 3rd at 12pm ESDT, the Secretariat of Child and Youth Protection will commemorate Child Abuse Prevention Month with a Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, with special intentions for victims and survivors of sexual abuse. Mass will be celebrated by Archbishop Wilton D. Gregory of the Archdiocese of Washington and live streamed via: USCCB Facebook Page & Archdiocese of Washington 

 


Wear Blue
Day – Friday, April 3rd through Sunday, April 5th: Caring individuals observe Wear Blue Day to make a visible commitment to preventing child abuse and to show their support for making great childhoods happen nationwide by wearing something blue. The Child Abuse Prevention Center of California has designated Friday, April 3 – Sunday April 5, 2020 as a time for faith communities to show their support for Child Abuse Prevention Month by wearing blue. Caring individuals and organizations in Santa Clara County will band together to make a visible commitment to preventing child abuse and help in supporting the call make great childhoods happen nationwide by wearing blue. #DSJWearsBlue 

 

Rosary for Healing and Protection – April 20th (Postponed Due to COVID-19): A Rosary will be said on Monday, April 20th at 1:30pm (EST) in the Saint Pope John Paul II National Shrine and will be live streamed across all USCCB social platforms: Facebook & Twitter. We encourage you to turn this into a local event by scheduling a time throughout the month of April to say a Rosary at your parish or school in support of victims/survivors of abuse through prayer. This can be adapted as a social media livestream for parish and school communities. Download EnglishSpanish

 

Blue Sunday – April 26th: Each year, Blue Sunday Abuse Prevention offers a day of prayer on the last Sunday of April.  You can find resources and registration for the Blue Sunday Day of Prayer at bluesunday.org. On April 26, 2020, churches of all faiths are asked to join together in a day of prayer to demonstrate their appreciation to those who help abused or neglected children, and to support children and families who have been affected by abuse.

 

Pinwheels for Prevention: In 2008, Prevent Child Abuse America introduced the pinwheel as the new national symbol for child abuse prevention. Show your support for our nation’s children and help get your children involved in the movement by making your own pinwheel display or even better, a pinwheel garden! This is a great family activity for parents and children to do at home. Download your Pinwheel Template and Instructions | Pinwheel Coloring Sheet

 

Partners In Prevention - The Blue Ribbon Create a “blue ribbon tree” at your parish or school, encouraging children and adults to tie a blue ribbon around a specific tree (the trunk and the branches) in honor of child abuse prevention. You could also have each person say a prayer for those who have been abused as they tie on their ribbon. This is a great family activity for parents and children to do at home. History of the Blue Ribbon: In Spring of 1989, a very personal awareness campaign was conducted by a Virginia grandmother, Bonnie Finney, whose 3-year-old grandson had died as a result of abuse. Ms. Finney tied a blue ribbon to the antenna of her car to remember and honor her grandson. She spoke out in her community to alert others of the tragedy of child abuse and the use of the Blue Ribbon has since expanded across the country, embraced by many. Now, the Blue Ribbon is a nationally recognized symbol promoting child abuse awareness. The power of Ms. Finney’s story demonstrates the effect just one concerned citizen can have on raising public awareness and promoting child abuse prevention efforts.

 

Reminder: Submit Annual Audit Reporting Form after completion of the VIRTUS© Catholic Safe Environment Curriculum for youth trained in diocesan schools and religious education programs by April 30th, 2020. Audit Forms: School Form | Parish Form

Interactive Online Resources from VIRTUS, in partnership with the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC)

 

NetSmartz is NCMEC’s online safety education program. It provides age-appropriate videos and activities to help teach children how to be safer online with the goal of helping children to become more aware of potential online risks and empowering them to help prevent victimization by making safer choices on- and offline. Available in English and Spanish Language: English Language Website | Spanish Language Website

KidSmartz is NCMEC’s child safety program that educates families about interpersonal safety and empowers kids in grades K-5 to practice safer behaviors. This program offers resources to help parents, caregivers, and teachers protect kids by teaching and practicing the four (4) Rules of Personal Safety using tips, printable activities, quizzes, articles, music, videos, and more. Available in English and Spanish Language: English Language Website | Spanish Language Website

Additional Resources:

Report Abuse: If any person, or persons, needs to report a case of Clergy Abuse, we encourage them to fist contact the civil authorities (local law enforcement). Once a report is filed with the local authorities, individuals are encouraged to contact the Office for the Protection of Children & Vulnerable Adults (OPCVA) at 408-983-0113. The diocese has a secure third-party reporting website and can be accessed online at https://opcva.ethicspoint.com or the Toll-Free 24 Hour Phone Number: 844-372-1691

Mandated Reporter Information – Santa Clara County Child Abuse & Neglect Center Toll-Free 24 Hour Phone Number 1-833-722-5437